Since the groom’s attire is sometimes a bit overlooked in the destination wedding plans, I am dedicating a follow-up post with more stylish alternatives to the standard white shirt and khaki pants. And don’t forget your little ring bearer (this is my son Jake posing below;) he should also look back with fond memories of the wedding day. Jake is wearing a white shirt and tie by Ralph Lauren dressed up by a beautiful Hawaiian lei. The dimples complete the ensemble, don’t you think? (Lei is available at Creations by You in Honolulu, photo by Chrissy Lambert.)

Enter J. Crew for classic good looks that will stand the test of time–who wants to look back on their wedding photos and say, “What was I thinking?!”. Here are a few light weight selections that you can personalize with a fabulous custom shirt from a haberdashery like Thomas Pink for true elegance.
(photo above by Chrissy Lambert, below courtesy of J. Crew)